Ok inspired by things I have heard and read, I have created this simple and basic blessing.
"May you find compassion in family and friends,
May you find comfort in the arms of angels,
May God carry you when your troubles are like broken glass on the ground before you,
May the light of the Divine shine for you in the darkest night,
May Love fill each action and word you give and recieve,
May the song of Life fill your heart; and your sould dance to it."