So when you see someone, and they are having a bad day, it is much more about their bad day than about you. Its always about the beholder! Everything is about the beholder!
So what you want to do is be aware of what you're seeing in others; that's what you want to be aware of. Don't worry about what people are seeing in you, don't worry about the love they're not giving you, let your awareness be upon what you're putting out, let your awareness be more about HOW MUCH YOU ARE LOVING! That's what you should be interested in.
We wouldn't be running around saying, "Who loves me? Who doesn't love me?" We'd be saying, "Who do I love? What is it about you that I love? What is it about you that I use as my excuse to see what Source sees?"
Excerpted from the workshop in Washington, D.C.on 5/10/08