Hello friends and family... I am in a quandary and am struggling with a religious issue. I (because of health issues and relationship issues) have move to northern CA. And this last weekend I attended a church service that really shocked and dumbfounded me. The denomination really doesn't matter at this point, so I won't go into that. The week before I went wearing my suit and tie... and EVERYONE welcomed me and was super nice. To test the waters, this last weekend I went in slacks and a really nice polo shirt. Now this church claims to be open and welcoming and tolerant, but not ONE person including the clergy even said hello to me. They even avoided looking at me. This really bothered me. So I spent the day yesterday talking with people. And the number one reason over all that I was told was the reason they did not go to church was because they do not feel welcome because they look different and dress different. I guess my quandary is this... is it time to start a new church here? Didn't Christ say to come to Him as we are? Aren't we supposed to welcome EVERYONE into His presence? "...as you have done it to the least of these you have done it unto me..." isn't that what we are supposed to be doing? I have been praying and meditating on this issue all night. I guess I need some opinions and guidance. I know there is a reason I was brought here in such a hurried state. The move for me happened withing hours of knowing I had a need. Please talk to me. Let me know your thoughts. I need your help. Thank you in advance for all you help and prayers. Love you all -- Will.
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