this is a blog im starting on. if u are trans or someone who has a good topic on the subject comment. this is just a small peace of what i am working on so its a bit all over the place
the ups and downs a trans individual goes threw.lately ppl have been giving me opinions on how life is for transsexual individuals. some say we die alone cause no real man will want us cause we make them question there man hood. some say we are to picky, some say we wont find love cause its an act against god, some say we never truly pass off as women and some say we will burn in eternal fire oh and one more thing your parents might stop loving u. that right there can make a trans male or female depressed.
however the friends u make threw your life will odds are be with you for the rest of your life. they become your extended family. alot of churches wont welcome u with open arms. however when u find a church that does majority of the time they welcome u in with open arms and give u support when u need it. the friends u make will be there to guide u and help give u advice when you need it. your family might never get over the fact that your trans however in time they might do a 180 on you. a personal experience i went threw was when i told my mother about me for the first time. she said she will always love me however she was disgusted on how i was gonna live my life and never wanted to see me as a girl or dating a guy. next year she went with me to pride fest while i was starting my own version of transitioning. that right there can tell u alot can happen in a year.
i wont lie to u tho love is very tricky, however gay str8 love is just as tricky. sometimes u get the person u love sometimes there not interested in you or sometimes there afiraid of dating u cause of the repercussions.
if u are a minor odds are school will be the most difficult time for u. just know that it does get better, in fact it gets way better once u are out of school.
lets get started on the subject of beauty. when i first started my transition (im not talking about homrones) i looked like a two cent hooker. however sometimes, not all the time but sometimes u meet a guy or girl who will see your inner beauty and that will make u feel like the most special person in the world. it happened to me and even tho we are no longer together i thank him for what he gave to me. it was that man who made me believe i was beautiful. i truly believe if u think u are beautiful u will become beautiful. cause as soon as i started having that mind set i noticed changes in my appearance. in less then a year i lost 45 pounds my skin was ten times softer and my overall appearance had changed. sadly tho not everyone will look passable. however that doesnt mean someone who can pass off has it any easier then you. we all have up and down moments. just remember if u do look for love let the personality be the thing u most care about in a significant other. i know its not the only thing but it should be the most important thing. cause try to remember looks fade, money goes away but someones personality is with them till the day they die.
