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NAME CHANGES AND MARRIAGE

  • The following is an excerpt from an article about MARRIAGE and the tradition of the female partner in heterosexual couples changing their name to that of the male. What do you think of this tradition and the recent trends refered to below?

    “ In March, the wedding website TheKnot.com surveyed nearly 19,000 women who got married last year. Of those women, 86 percent took their husband's name. The practice of women keeping their names, first introduced in the U.S. by suffragette Lucy Stone in the 20s and popularized during the Women's Rights Movement of the early 70s, peaked in the 1990s at 23 percent. By the 2000s, only 18 percent of women were keeping their names, according to a 2009 study published in the journal Social Behavior and Personality. Now, according to TheKnot, it's at just 8 percent.”

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/08/15/women-changing-name-after-marriage_n_927707.html?1313496839&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-nb%7Cdl4%7Csec1_lnk3%7C87591

4 comments
  • Joshua Baker
    Joshua Baker People in today's society tend to stick with what is the "normal" or socially acceptable path. People talk about being independent and wanting to stand out from the crowd, however, rarely do people follow that path. On the other note, many Men would tend ...  more
    August 21, 2011
  • <i>Deleted Member</i>
    Deleted Member I was married in 1985. My Social Security card hyphenates my name but I didn't start using that hyphenated name professionally until nearly 20 years later when my Dad died. It was a way of honoring HIM ALSO.
    August 21, 2011 - delete
  • Joshua Baker
    Joshua Baker You made an honorable choice. This is the point of my thoughts. Every person is given free will, and we must exercise that free will. This is but a small example of doing so.
    August 21, 2011
  • Sherri M Madden
    Sherri M Madden I married my husband 6 years ago. He wanted me to take his name, but I told him I would add his name to mine if, he put my name before his as well. He was shocked that I would ask such a thing of him, stating, “Men don’t do that.” I then refused to change...  more
    September 15, 2011 - 1 likes this