Creation is the result of the interaction of mind and soul. The "primordial substance" light was split into the 2 basic principles male and female. As parts of an original unity, there is great attraction between them. Their tendency is always to restore this wholeness again through merging. Basically it's just a re-union and yet, through the splitting of the primordial light into countless energy pulses with male or female polarity and their infinite combinations always new creation arises, something unprecedented!
The spirit embodies the male principle, the father, the soul the feminine principle, the mother. From this connection arises creation: the child.
The more similar these forces are in their vibration, the more harmonious their interaction, the more pure and selfless the original impulses of the parental forces are, the more intense and lightful will be the force of their joint creation: their child.
In the course of its development a child develops all forces applied by the parents. The finer and more harmonious the exchange of these energies is with each other, the more harmonious runs a child's development.
Problematic behavior of children is the result of a lack of harmony of parental generative energies.
In this respect the consciousness of the parents at the time of the child's conception plays a particularly important role.
If the parents lack deep knowledge of basical spiritual laws, or if the levels of consciousness of the parents differ a lot or are in conflict with each other, excessive tensions will arise later in the child.
The child will feel very different, often contradictory impulses in itself and does not know which ones to follow.
It will sometimes follow these and only seconds later those, depending on the situation, the environment and its personal maturity.
These tensions consume a lot of energies inhibiting the natural development of a child into a strong, balanced and well centered individuality, impacting both the child himself, the parents and the social environment, as these inner tensions are usually uncontrollable and often directed against the parents or against one parent especially.
Young people should definitely know about these things before they embark on parenthood, because it is very hard to control or adjust these combinations of forces once they are applied.
Many problems of teenagers, burdening their parents and society by their imbalanced energies would not even arise if in our schools these things were taught, rather than reducing the fusion of men and women only to the lowest level, the bio-physical level!