Square pegs and round holes is where hammers come in handy. I've learned to think of myself as a hammer. Don't concern yourself with what other people think, follow your own path. If there's a brick wall blocking your path, make a door. You're only beaten when you quit. It's how we roll on the red planet.
To read the rest of my post concerning what do about feeling alien, please follow this link to The Path: Man from Mars