Often times the things and events that appear to be tragic or negitive in our lives, are in fact God's blessing and at times miracles. Hidden from plain site. I was born handicap. I always thought my twin who is able body got the sweeter end of the deal. She maybe married and have a child. But for all my challanges, and they are great. I have had way more excitement and joy. I have been on Tv. And when men love me I know they truly love me. Because most men are scared of my head strong personality. Not to mention the physical limitations. I ues crutches to walk. Because Jesus saw to it that when I was young boys treated me as one of the guys. I know don't allow them to play games with me. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Thats my motto. I may not date as regular as most women my age. When I do, I know its real.