Am I wrong?

Posted by Rev. Brian Wayman April 1, 2015 - # #Lost - 1,093 views

Good evening Let me start by saying I'm glad im a part of this site. Ok here goes I have think lady that is 66 years of age and she has her grandchildren there 9 & 7 the children mother is a junkie the grandmother don't have much to live she wants to marry me so I can get the children so they won't go into foster care or to there junkie mother both children love me so much they asked me to adopt them because they want me as there POPI ( grandfather) I have a 5 yr old daughter I'm lost what should I do ? Thank you & God Bless Rev. Brian Wayman

4 comments

Gypsy Z Have you looked into the laws in place at this time in your area? Without going into too many political issues. There are many things to consider in a situation such as this. I sent you a friend request, so you do not have to go into many details on th... more
April 1, 2015 - 2 like this
Pastor Douglas Challenger, MFAM, ULCM I have two questions for you. First, do you love her? Second, if these children were not an issue, would you consider marriage to this woman? If your answer to either or both of these questions is "no", then I would advise against it. There may ... more
April 2, 2015
Joseph Campbell I have to agree with pastor doug you shouldn't marry unless you are in love. But if it is the children in question I am sure that you would be able to legally adopt them so they wont go into foster care. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope you are ab... more
April 2, 2015 - 1 likes this
Minister Cliff Gonzalez Brother Wayman, everyone has given you good advice. Gypsy, Douglas and Joseph have a valid point look into the laws of your state. You probably do not have to marry in order to adopt these children. Marriage is the sacred union of two people that LOVE ... more
April 3, 2015 - 1 likes this