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Rev. Donna Donovan

Tolerance

  • Tolerance: (the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with, the capacity to endure continued subjection to something) This word has become quite a trigger button for me. I see all kinds of people, from every walk, spouting off about tolerance. Religious tolerance, tolerance of sexual orientation and lifestyles, etc. Forget tolerance, what about RESPECT? I do not want you to tolerate my beliefs, I want you to respect them. I am not causing you to "endure continued subjection" to anything. My religious beliefs, my sexual orientation, my lifestyle in no way, shape, or form is affecting you (generally speaking) at all. I am not trying to convert anyone, I am not holding a knife to your throat saying "You WILL believe!" I am just living my life the way I see fit, and I should be respected for that, as I respect others who follow their own paths. Stop striving for tolerance, it's degrading. Demand and command respect, for yourselves and others. Rant over.

6 comments
  • Rev. Donna Donovan
    Rev. Donna Donovan Well said, Cindy
    April 14, 2015
  • Bishop Dale Day Hudson
    Bishop Dale Day Hudson Tolerance is a good thing, and so is respect, but even those who claim that these things are direly essential sometimes fail to utilize these traits when they should utilize them most. You can be the most respectful person in the world, and your still goi...  more
    April 14, 2015 - 1 likes this
  • Rev. Donna Donovan
    Rev. Donna Donovan Of course people will. However, it is my opinion that it is better to strive for respect instead of being tolerated. And yes, tolerance is a far leap from how things used to be. But mutual respect should be the goal
    April 14, 2015 - 2 like this
  • Bishop Dale Day Hudson
    Bishop Dale Day Hudson I agree 100%, however not everyone knows the true meaning of respect, as you can see it in their daily actions, and postings on these social networks. Thank you for writing your blog, :)
    April 14, 2015 - 3 like this