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Pastor Bob Huggins

Bullying


  • Bullying is defined as unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. If you ever need help on know someone that does, you can get it here at www.stopbullying.gov
    There are three types of bullying:
    Verbal bullying is saying or writing mean things. Verbal bullying includes:
    Teasing
    Name-calling
    Inappropriate sexual comments
    Taunting
    Threatening to cause harm
    Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    Leaving someone out on purpose
    Telling other children not to be friends with someone
    Spreading rumors about someone
    Embarrassing someone in public
    Physical bullying involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Physical bullying includes:
    Hitting/kicking/pinching
    Spitting
    Tripping/pushing
    Taking or breaking someone’s things
    Making mean or rude hand gestures
    Cyberbullying is Different
    Kids who are being cyberbullied are often bullied in person as well. Additionally, kids who are cyberbullied have a harder time getting away from the behavior.
    Cyberbullying can happen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and reach a kid even when he or she is alone. It can happen any time of the day or night.
    Cyberbullying messages and images can be posted anonymously and distributed quickly to a very wide audience. It can be difficult and sometimes impossible to trace the source.
    Deleting inappropriate or harassing messages, texts, and pictures is extremely difficult after they have been posted or sent.

    Steps to Take Immediately
    Don’t respond to and don’t forward cyberbullying messages.
    Keep evidence of cyberbullying. Record the dates, times, and descriptions of instances when cyberbullying has occurred. Save and print screenshots, emails, and text messages. Use this evidence to report cyberbullying to web and cell phone service providers.
    Block the person who is cyberbullying.
    When cyberbullying involves these activities it is considered a crime and should be reported to law enforcement:

    Get Help Now
    When you, your child, or someone close to you is being bullied, there are many steps to take to help resolve the situation.
    http://www.stopbullying.gov/index.html

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