Whether you celebrated Christmas, Hanukkah, or any other religious holiday this month, any gift without love is no gift. The best gift is that which is given out of love. How big it is or how expensive it is, does not determine the worth of it. It is love, care and concern that make a gift precious.
Such a gift conveys confidence, promise, a sense of security, a feeling of being wanted and loved and a good relationship. In such a gift, one can find the self of the person who gifts it. There is his heart in it. And heart in the bible stands for the centre of one’s being. It is what makes up a human being, his reason, will and his mental disposition.
The gospel, John 1.1-18, speaks of such a gift-giving by God. God is the Word. It is like the heart of God. As this Word becomes a human being, He gives Himself to the world. His idea is to plant Himself – this Word, this Light, this Heart, this Love, this Forgiveness and Reconciliation and all that He is – in the centre of the human person.
So that we also imitate this incarnation of God, this God becoming man, this Word becoming Flesh in our daily life. God wants our giving to be modelled after His. His own giving of Himself to us is such, that it is like a chemical substance that changes things into something new, when they come into contact with each other. Through His Word, God wants to change us into new, better human persons.
Additionally, when we imitate this relationship of God to us, our life also becomes life-giving flesh in the lives of others. When life does not flow to others through us, there is no giving. When we begin to give as God gives Himself, God fills us with more of His life. That is the key to eternal life.
As christians, we are called to imitate this gift-giving, this God becoming man, in our relation to our fellow-humans. That makes us Light, Love, Forgiveness and Life for the World. One who does that, gives himself, gifts himself to others, like His Son Jesus, in whom God reveals His glory to the world.